You may realize that you see things not as they are . . . but as you think they should be. Strive to change the things in yourself that you want to change in others. Keith D. Harrell
We all see things based on our own experiences and not always the way they really are. So, before you try to change anything, or anyone, make sure you're looking at the situation as it really is and not veiled by your own perceptions.
